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Thursday, May 13th, 2010

Cape Cod Institute

 

 

 

 

August 2nd through 6th, I will once again serve as class assistant for Edith and Charles Seashore’s program, “Intentional Use of Self: Strategies and Skills for Consulting, Coaching and Change.” Edith Whitfield Seashore, M.A., specializes in Organizational Development and change and has over 40 years of experience training and consulting with corporations and government agencies as well as non-profits. Charles Seashore, Ph.D., is chair of the faculty of the doctoral program in Human and Organization Development of the Fielding Graduate Institute. Both are NTL pioneers and amazing people. This is my fourth time serving as their assistant.

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Fear Funk

Thursday, May 13th, 2010

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Sometimes it comes on gradually—the pressure you feel to find work, get your business in the black again, or restore stability to your financial future accumulates, causing sleepless nights or mornings when you sit at your desk not knowing what to do next.

Or there may be a trigger—one rejection too many, a bill you can’t pay, or a depressing headline saps your belief in yourself and better days ahead, and you have that sinking sensation of fear taking you over for a few days or a week or longer.

Fear is a natural reaction to change, and you can expect it to be particularly active when your work-life, that part of your existence that provides sustenance, purpose and identity, has been shaken like a snow globe.

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Pluck

Friday, April 9th, 2010

Plucky Old Woman

All we know about the woman in this photograph is that she was 80 years old in November, 1936, when Dorothea Lange took her picture, and at the time she was living in a camp for migrant workers outside Bakersfield, California.

If we think of her in the context of the times, we can deduce that she and her family were probably among the thousands of farmers forced to migrate from the Oklahoma Dust Bowl to California in search of work. This would mean that she had been enduring dislocation and acute poverty for some time.

Yet the old woman’s look is strong and her demeanor is positive. The shadow from the hand that shields her eyes from the bright sunlight obscures much of her face, but we can see enough to know that she is looking straight ahead and determined to keeping moving forward.

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Wednesday, April 7th, 2010

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On August 18 at 5 PM, I will facilitate a conversation about Daniel Pink’s book, Drive: The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us, at the second session of the Cape’s newly formed Business Book Club. The meeting will take place in the conference room of the Cape Cod Chamber of Commerce, 5 Shoot Flying Hill Rd, Centerville, MA. The group is open to the public. Come have your entrepreneurial energy revitalized by a lively discussion of the best practices for achieving success in any business venture.

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Being in Transition

Wednesday, April 7th, 2010

Beverly Ryle head shotWe live in a world where change is constant, and yet we make little space in our lives for dealing with it. Even the most painful and significant events get swallowed up in our culture’s pervasive impetus to move on. Retirement, the loss of a job, a major illness, the death of a spouse or partner, the limitations of aging—these are but a few of the major transitions in our lives. They are also opportunities for growth.

 

Beverly Ryle will speak on the topic of Transition, May 11, 2010, 6:30-8 PM at:

 

Eastham Library
190 Samoset Road
Eastham, MA 02642-3145
(508) 240-5950

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The Daily Grind

Tuesday, March 9th, 2010

Dorothea Lange, White Angel BreadlineAt the Daily Grind coffee shop in Cortland, New York, I watched a steady stream of farmers in overalls, contractors in flannel shirts, and 9-to-5 employees in business dress, and I thought about how every town or neighborhood has a hub like this. Find a Daily Grind, full of regulars who stop in on their way to work, and you’ve found the heart of the work life of a city.

Listening to what was being said there, it became clear to me that the Cortlanders whose daily ritual I was observing were trying to make a living in a place where that is not always an easy thing to do—the town has an 11% unemployment rate and negative job growth.

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Career Counselors’ Consortium

Thursday, March 4th, 2010

Reframing Networking—Relationship Building for Long-Term Career Security

April 16, 2010, 9 AM to 1 PM
Northeastern University
Egan Center, Room 340, Boston, MA

This is a half-day career seminar with a special rate of just $85!

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SmartStart Workshop, March 30

Thursday, March 4th, 2010

Join us for the SmartStart Workshop, a four-part interactive program for individuals in the early stages of business development taught by a team of experienced entrepreneurs, including business consultant, Beverly Ryle.

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Staying Home

Friday, February 12th, 2010

Staying HomeA 2005 article in the London Evening Standard about overwhelmed working women advised them “not to struggle into work when ill but to stay at home and rest.” Likewise, the November 2009 issue of Working Women magazine cautioned readers against “dragging [their] fever-ridden [bodies] into the office.”

Under ordinary circumstances, this would be simply a matter of common sense, but the economic slowdown we are experiencing has eroded our sense of work security and had the effect of making people fearful that their absence from work, even for a day or two, could have disastrous consequences. In a new context, this simple advice deserves a closer look.

In Crazy Busy, author and physician Edward Hallowell talks about having to go to work regardless of your physical condition as if it were something that belongs to the past, like the experience of the lower classes as described in Dickens’s novels. But is it?

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My Focus for the New Year

Friday, January 8th, 2010

Raise a glass half full to 2010!” said the headline.

Whenever I thumb through one of those women’s magazines, the kind with a photograph of a triple-layer chocolate mousse cake on the cover with a caption promising twelve effortless ways of slimming down, I usually forget what I’ve read as soon as I’ve read it, but the idea of toasting the new year with a glass half full resonated with me because it is both realistic and hopeful. Realistic because it acknowledges what isn’t there as well as what is. Hopeful because it offers the choice of where to put your energy with a more complete understanding of what’s missing.

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