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	<description>Winning Strategies for Finding and Creating Work</description>
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		<title>By: Susan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 23:20:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bev,

What a great story on work and why we do it.  Your story reminded me of my experience  years ago being unemployed and hesitant about taking a job &#039;beneath me&#039;.  My friend, who was also unemployed at the time, suggested I use her one qualifier ... &quot;Is it honest work?&quot; Why not, I thought. After coming out of a corporate position, I took a short-term job as an office assistant in a manufacturing plant.  I decided not to tell anyone about my background and just focused on every day doing an honest job.  Before too long, I found I&#039;d left my ego at home and actually enjoyed some of the small blessings of the position - friendly people, minimal pressure, and lots of atta-girls.  It allowed me to focus my energies on my longer-term goals.   Thanks for reminding me there&#039;s a pony in every experience!  
Susan</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bev,</p>
<p>What a great story on work and why we do it.  Your story reminded me of my experience  years ago being unemployed and hesitant about taking a job &#8216;beneath me&#8217;.  My friend, who was also unemployed at the time, suggested I use her one qualifier &#8230; &#8220;Is it honest work?&#8221; Why not, I thought. After coming out of a corporate position, I took a short-term job as an office assistant in a manufacturing plant.  I decided not to tell anyone about my background and just focused on every day doing an honest job.  Before too long, I found I&#8217;d left my ego at home and actually enjoyed some of the small blessings of the position &#8211; friendly people, minimal pressure, and lots of atta-girls.  It allowed me to focus my energies on my longer-term goals.   Thanks for reminding me there&#8217;s a pony in every experience!<br />
Susan</p>
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		<title>By: Josephine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Josephine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2010 17:35:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Beverly

Your story about the MiniMart brought back so many memories for me.

My Father (who died in 2006 at 93 years) came from poverty and hardship.  But, as he always said &quot; I was at the right place at the right time and took advantage of it&quot;.   He retired from the US Secret Service after 35 years with many awards and accolades from the Presidents who he served and protected.

One thing that he insisted was that my brother and I experience during our High School and College days were many types of jobs.  He insisted that no matter what the job was or what it paid, we do our best.  He believed that we should never conclude anything about a person based on the work that  person was engaged in.  He made us see the value in all work while encouraging us to attain whatever goals we had set for ourselves personally and professionally.  

This has served me well as I approach almost 18 months of job searches after being laid off in 2009.  I have taken different types of work, mostly part-time or of limited length.  I have gone into every job with a feeling of adventure and have learned much about myself (even new skills that I can put on my resume) and have met people who have added so many different view points to my experience of life and work and some great friendships as well.

As of today, I find myself ending one job (US Census) and again searching for at least some part time work.  This is a struggle and sometimes a weight that feels to heavy to carry.  But with what my Father taught me and my curious and adaptive nature, I know that I will be back to work soon.

Josephine</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Beverly</p>
<p>Your story about the MiniMart brought back so many memories for me.</p>
<p>My Father (who died in 2006 at 93 years) came from poverty and hardship.  But, as he always said &#8221; I was at the right place at the right time and took advantage of it&#8221;.   He retired from the US Secret Service after 35 years with many awards and accolades from the Presidents who he served and protected.</p>
<p>One thing that he insisted was that my brother and I experience during our High School and College days were many types of jobs.  He insisted that no matter what the job was or what it paid, we do our best.  He believed that we should never conclude anything about a person based on the work that  person was engaged in.  He made us see the value in all work while encouraging us to attain whatever goals we had set for ourselves personally and professionally.  </p>
<p>This has served me well as I approach almost 18 months of job searches after being laid off in 2009.  I have taken different types of work, mostly part-time or of limited length.  I have gone into every job with a feeling of adventure and have learned much about myself (even new skills that I can put on my resume) and have met people who have added so many different view points to my experience of life and work and some great friendships as well.</p>
<p>As of today, I find myself ending one job (US Census) and again searching for at least some part time work.  This is a struggle and sometimes a weight that feels to heavy to carry.  But with what my Father taught me and my curious and adaptive nature, I know that I will be back to work soon.</p>
<p>Josephine</p>
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		<title>By: Tina Dwyer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tina Dwyer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jul 2010 15:41:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article. I wish that everyone would read this and really take some quiet time to check-in with themselves to identify what their work values are. I see so many people in my private practice that are struggling with being out of balance around their lives and their work values. And often our work values change as our lives unfold. Looking at work with this lens makes it so much bigger, and hopefully with this comes a sense of freedom and empowerment.

Tina</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article. I wish that everyone would read this and really take some quiet time to check-in with themselves to identify what their work values are. I see so many people in my private practice that are struggling with being out of balance around their lives and their work values. And often our work values change as our lives unfold. Looking at work with this lens makes it so much bigger, and hopefully with this comes a sense of freedom and empowerment.</p>
<p>Tina</p>
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		<title>By: Christie Andresen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christie Andresen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jul 2010 16:14:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Beverly,

I can&#039;t tell you how much your post this week affected me. 

I was offered a job in my brother in-law&#039;s gas/convenience store last winter. The thought of working for someone else after working for myself for 30 years, working for take home pay of 7.00 per hour, and working pumping gas and selling cigarettes actually made me feel sick to my stomach. I couldn&#039;t think of how I could ever commit to a regular schedule and work 8 hours a day waiting on people. My pride lion rose to the surface and I embarrassed to even think of working such a low level job. I was also afraid I had been out of the loop with technology, and thought I had no real skills to bring to the table...

Well, under a family emergency I started working there about a week ago.

The space is clean and friendly and I take pride in keeping it that way.

It gets me out of my studio and back talking to people and using my terrific people skills to help people in the simplest of ways.
I have great computer skills and working the register and pumps is very basic.

The schedule calls for me to work a mere 8 hours a day, 3 days a week...I usually work 15 to 16 hours a day, 7 days a week.
I have already been in touch with old clients, and can give them directions to my studio and chat with them.

The store has mild air conditioning...a bonus for this year.

And, after my shift there, I can come up to the Guild and create for the rest of the day.

And best of all, I am working with my young nephew, helping him hone his business skills, teaching my niece how to use a mop, and helping my other nephew learn how to set up shelves and greet customers. A wonderful family affair.

I am now also much more focused in my work. I have certain time constraints to get my own work done. Just as I have certain time constraints to clean and make coffee and mop at the store.

Yes, it can boring, but only because I am good at what I do...quick, efficient and thorough in all my duties. I can take pride in that, too.

I am also a mature adult, knowledgeable, with excellent language and communication skills, and people have already remarked on my friendliness and intelligence: yes: the old &quot;what are you doing in a convenience store?&quot; line...I just ask them right back: Well, what are you doing here???...They get it right away and we both laugh.

So, while I sing the song (proudly) &quot;Do you know the way to San Jose?&quot;, I think of my next glass project, and fill the sugars.

Thanks for your blog and your letter this week. It meant a lot to me.

Warm regards, Christie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Beverly,</p>
<p>I can&#8217;t tell you how much your post this week affected me. </p>
<p>I was offered a job in my brother in-law&#8217;s gas/convenience store last winter. The thought of working for someone else after working for myself for 30 years, working for take home pay of 7.00 per hour, and working pumping gas and selling cigarettes actually made me feel sick to my stomach. I couldn&#8217;t think of how I could ever commit to a regular schedule and work 8 hours a day waiting on people. My pride lion rose to the surface and I embarrassed to even think of working such a low level job. I was also afraid I had been out of the loop with technology, and thought I had no real skills to bring to the table&#8230;</p>
<p>Well, under a family emergency I started working there about a week ago.</p>
<p>The space is clean and friendly and I take pride in keeping it that way.</p>
<p>It gets me out of my studio and back talking to people and using my terrific people skills to help people in the simplest of ways.<br />
I have great computer skills and working the register and pumps is very basic.</p>
<p>The schedule calls for me to work a mere 8 hours a day, 3 days a week&#8230;I usually work 15 to 16 hours a day, 7 days a week.<br />
I have already been in touch with old clients, and can give them directions to my studio and chat with them.</p>
<p>The store has mild air conditioning&#8230;a bonus for this year.</p>
<p>And, after my shift there, I can come up to the Guild and create for the rest of the day.</p>
<p>And best of all, I am working with my young nephew, helping him hone his business skills, teaching my niece how to use a mop, and helping my other nephew learn how to set up shelves and greet customers. A wonderful family affair.</p>
<p>I am now also much more focused in my work. I have certain time constraints to get my own work done. Just as I have certain time constraints to clean and make coffee and mop at the store.</p>
<p>Yes, it can boring, but only because I am good at what I do&#8230;quick, efficient and thorough in all my duties. I can take pride in that, too.</p>
<p>I am also a mature adult, knowledgeable, with excellent language and communication skills, and people have already remarked on my friendliness and intelligence: yes: the old &#8220;what are you doing in a convenience store?&#8221; line&#8230;I just ask them right back: Well, what are you doing here???&#8230;They get it right away and we both laugh.</p>
<p>So, while I sing the song (proudly) &#8220;Do you know the way to San Jose?&#8221;, I think of my next glass project, and fill the sugars.</p>
<p>Thanks for your blog and your letter this week. It meant a lot to me.</p>
<p>Warm regards, Christie</p>
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